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Submitted by Brett Gledhill
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Aunt Ida Dix visited here during the last April and the first part
of May 1960. I had her talk about her mother and this was what I
was told.
Mary Katherine Barton Ivie was born 30 June 1837 in Northumberland
County, PA. She was the first of eight children. She lived with
her parents in Hancock County, ILL., and Pottowattamie, IN., on
the trek to Utah with her pioneer parents as other children were
born at these places where they stopped.
Her parents and family came to Utah in the second wagon train
after the coming of Brigham Young. In 1847, October, I think, they
settled in Bountiful, she was ten years old. Here she met John Lehi
Ivie and on 16 May 1862 they were married in the Endowment House.
Twelve children were born to them, Joseph Alma, Phoebe Ellen, Mary
Susanna, Rosella Ann, John Lafayette, James Oscar, Lilly Belle,
Catherine May, Seymour Cliff, Alden Salathiel, Ida Priscilla, and
Ray Ivie. John Lehi Ivie was called to go to Mt. Pleasant to settle,
and persuaded the Barton's to go too. They all built homes there.
The Ivie home was a two-story house with a porch all along the front.
My father, Thomas Gledhill, used to say Grandmother Mary Katherine
was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen. She was refined,
kind spoken, thrifty, and made a fine home. She had black curly
hair, and laughing eyes. Aunt Ida told me she had met an old friend
of her mothers in Bountiful, who said, "She was the prettiest,
and the most popular girl in the crowd. She was loved by everyone
who knew her. When she married we all hated to have her leave Bountiful."
Grandpa John Lehi was made a colonel in the Walker and Black Hawk
Indian Wars. He was away much of the time, so she raised her family
alone much of the time. Also he had another wife, Maretta Carter,
and after the breakup between he and Maretta, he married Violet
Gledhill, sister to my father Thomas. He was in Sevier much of his
time and grandmother saw some really hard times there along with
her family at Mt. Pleasant. Food was scarce and her family had to
come to her rescue may times to keep them from starving.
She didn't ever whip her children, but her talks to them were
punishment enough. One time, Aunt Ida took a dollar and ran off
to school. Of course, she had many friends who could suggest ways
to spend it. So they bought candy and sluffed school and went home
late. Grandmother just talked to her and it was agreed that as punishment
Ida was to sit in the high chair all day. She was to tell everyone
who came in what she had done, and as she received any money, she
paid ten cents of it until the dollar was paid back. But all of
that didn't hurt like hurting her mother and knowing how bad her
mother felt.
Mary Katherine lost two girls, Phoebe Ellen and Rosella Ann. They
were buried in Ephraim Cemetery, so could have lived there for a
long time. They lost the eldest child, a son, at Provo, he was just
a few months old. Two later sons at Mt. Pleasant, Seymour Cliff
was six years old when he died of dropsy. John Lafayette died at
20 years of age. When John Lafayette was 20 years of age, they had
a good crop of grain and he was carrying large sacks of grain up
a steep stair to put it in the loft. He became overbalanced and
fell and injured his back on the steps. He suffered terribly, grandmother
took him to a doctor in Salt Lake, but he died and was buried in
Mt. Pleasant. She was just heartbroken
Grandmother was a nurse and midwife in her spare time. She treated
the sick and set bones. She had many old pioneer remedies, salves
and liniments. One salve was made of bees wax, sticky pine gum,
and mutton tallow. One time she was making liniment on wash day,
and the boiler boiled over and somehow her liniment caught fire.
She burnt her hands badly. But instructed the children to grate
up potatoes, put them in two salt sacks, then she put her hands
in the sacks. It cured her. She had no blisters or trouble with
them.
She carded wool, made lye soap and did much sewing. After she
and grandfather separated, she did much sewing for a very wealthy
woman, a Mrs. Lewis. She did much of her cooking in black iron pots,
which hung in the fireplace that had to be whitewashed. That was
Aunt Ida's job while she was in the Ivie home.
She knitted all the socks, caps and sweaters for the family. She
could walk and go right on knitting. The socks for the girls were
flowered patterns, white for summer, black for winter. Of course,
they all wore long-legged underwear too.
Then trouble came to this couple. You see, grandfather had a business
partner, Lime Peters, who lived much at their home even when grandfather
was away. People talked, grandfather believed the gossip and so
grandmother went away with Lime Peters, taking her four youngest
children (May, Alden, Ida, and Ray) with her. Ida says she remembers
grandmother telling her own mother, Grandma Barton, it was unfounded
gossip. She and lime were married in Provo and went to Idaho to
live. I guess divorce was a formality and not required in those
days.
Lime, according to my father, was not a refined man. I doubt even
a member of the church, and was a drinker. So with her refinement
and ideals she must have had a bad, as he beat her and the children.
He was often mean to them, but grandmother felt and was bound to
him.
At some time in her life she lived in what is now Sun Valley.
It was a big cattle ranch. They didn't own it though. Lime Peters
managed it. Many men were working there at the time and grandmother
took care of supplies and a Chinese cook, who died cooking. While
Peters had all these vices, he wanted her and the children and held
home in very strict circumstances.
She was very clean, and onetime hired a girl that brought them
body lice. Grandmother worked very hard to get rid of them and felt
so ashamed about having them around.
She had pierced ears and pierced all the ears of her girls. She
heeded a needle and put linen thread in it and while the needle
was hat put it through the ear lobe. Every day the string would
be pulled a little, until the ears healed and left a hole for the
earrings.
She was interested in mines and staked out many claims herself.
One of her claims got jumped and it became the biggest mine in Idaho.
Aunt Ida hurt her leg and it got to be a very bad sore. Her mother
healed it by using wagon grease on it, and while it was healing
her mother pulled her in a wagon until her sore was gone.
When Aunt May was just past 14, a man named Solinder, almost Peters
age and his friend, asked if she could go to visit the Catholic
Church with him. Grandmother said yes, if Alden went along. But,
they left Alden at the door and Solinder took Aunt May right up
to the front and married to her. Uncle Alden ran home for grandmother,
but by the time she got there they were on their horses and were
gone, she was just past 14. She only lived with him a short time.
She had Arther who lived, and twin boys who died by this man. Her
husband drank, beat and choked her. Grandmother had to send money
to feed them, and finally sent money for her to come home. Then
grandmother built an extra room n the house for she and the child
to live in.
Grandma had one other mining claim she expected much of. One August
day she set out with a buyer for her mine. Uncle Ray was in the
buckboard with her, with a horse tied behind, they went to inspect
it and probably sell, if the price was offered. They went as far
as they could in the buckboard, and got on horses. This was at Minamare
Mt., Red Fish Lake. Something frightened the horse and thought grandmother
was a good horsewoman she was thrown and her foot caught in the
stirrup. She was drug along way, the horse kicking her in the head
and chest, and bouncing her on the socks. She got loose, but was
badly hurt. They got her to the buckboard and got her home. She
was in great pain in the head and lungs. Her leg was twisted at
the knee. She had no crutch, so she would put her leg on a chair
and would drag the chair about. In October, she went back to bed
and never got up again. Death came December 24, 1888.
A fine article was written about her life in the Deseret News.
It told of her devotion to family and nurse for the community. Her
friends were the influential people of the town, the banker, the
hotel owner, etc. hr body was sent to Mt. Pleasant for burial. She
was dressed in black, which hurt my mother very much.
After the funeral, Uncle Ray and Aunt Ida sat on the doorstep
wondering and crying who would take care of them. Now Aunt May had
married a man named Pierce and was living in Salt Lake. Uncle Alden
wanted to stay there and work in the mine. He did and forgot some
of his mothers teachings, and took up the bad habit of smoking.
However, before his death he warned his family against it and getting
lungs like his. Uncle Ray and Aunt Ida came back to their father's
home in Sevier in Mt. Pleasant. Where in a few years Ida got courted
by Eddie Gottfredson before the big fireplace she had always had
to whitewash. Later she went to Salt Lake with Aunt May and still
later to Idaho with her brothers, where she met Tom Stanford whom
she married.
Later Aunt May married another man but he was the same kind, a
drunkard. They lived in Salt Lake, his name was Pierce. She had
three children. She couldn't stand the life and left him and went
to live with her brothers, Alden and Ray at East Fork. Later they
came in to Carey and lived in the Everett Dix home. Where May married
Ernest Gile. She lived happily with him and raised her son Arther.
Gile was captain in World War I, but was never heard from after
the war was over. She died of cancer to the liver, brought on, by
a bruise made by the horn of a saddle when her horse reared.
She was born with a broken blood vessel in her neck which spread
to hair and tongue, but this left when she died. She was buried
in black lace with a pink plume over her head and neck and covering
the blood vessels.
When the four came to Carey to live, two brothers and two sisters,
the boys had one pair of nice shoes between them so they would take
sisters to the dance and would divide time and shoes between them.
My brother Alden's wife Eva says she remembers mother saying Grandmother
died of typhoid and how bad she wanted to go to her, but didn't
have the money, and there was a new baby, Alden. She said mother
couldn't even talk about Grandmother without tears, so the subject
was avoided. This is the reason, I guess, why we know so little
of her. Aunt Ida was there so I think she knew about her mother
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